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Helping Children Cope with the Move


Moving can be a stressful enough process to take on, but when you add a disgruntled child or children to the mix, it can become downright painful. It can be difficult to pick up and move away from the only place you’ve ever known and to move away from those you care about. Never fear! There are ways to make this process easier on the little ones in your life. Here are a few tips that we hope can help make this transition smoother for anyone dealing with this process!

1.     Show the children the new home and their new room prior to moving.  If this is not possible, pictures or videos will help them visualize where they are going.

2.     Assure children that you won’t forget their friends.

3.     Make a scrapbook of the old home and neighborhood.

4.     Throw a good-bye party.  At the party, have their friends sign a t-shirt.

5.     Have your children write good-bye letters and enclose their new address.  You may wish to call the other children’s parents so that they will encourage return letters.

6.     When packing, give your children their own boxes and let them decorate them.

7.     Start a scrapbook for your new home.

8.     Visit your children’s new school, park, church, etc… Take a camera.

9.     Help your children invite new friends over to your new home.

10.  Let your children choose a new favorite restaurant.  This will help them feel in control of their new environment.

11.  Encourage your children to send letters about their new home to their friends.

12.  Involve your children in groups, sports, and activities like the ones they used to participate in.

13.  Remember, even if you only lived in a home for a few years, to a young child it is nearly their entire lifetime.

Lee Gosselin, Co-Founder, Owner & Associate Broker

The Lee Gosselin Real Estate Team 

Home with The WILSON Group

Serving Central & Coastal Virginia

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Hampton Roads Office

505 S. Independence Blvd, Ste 208-A

Virginia Beach, Virginia 23452

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Richmond, Virginia 23220

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